What Women Really Want ( insight to how women react and think)

How it go yoll? Miss me?

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So I was talking to one a my Ladies ( Ladies= Female friend) she was like bey ain't no woman wan no punk. That statement right there spark the whole question of what women really want but instead of asking that question straight up. I decided to take a different approach and design a question that involves that and a couple other aspects to see how ladies of my age group would respond. I think this should be an eye opener to fellows who may read. Even though I know mostly ladies read my shit appreciate it ladies. So this one is a must read gents. Instead of just talking and boring you with my thesis', conclusions and results I decided to allow you see the responses as they were typed by the participants themselves. This ain't only for the fellas doe it's for the ladies too. I would like you to observe some of the comments and see if some of the reactions were necessary and if u agree or disagree leave a comment. Thanks to all participants.

The Question

Good evening how you doin?
I wanna ask u a question be real with it thanks for the help Its for a blog i wanna do wen i post it I'll be sure to sen u the link so that you may view my conclusion. Question: " If some random guy was to walk up to you while you were in public and simply proceed to make the following statements: hi, Whats your name? and last but not least I like you how would you respond?

The Responses

i wud say my name *&& i wud look @ him strange

well if he cute i'll tel him my real name if hez not i'll make up a name..
if he say he like me if he cute agen i wud say man i like u 2
n if hez not i wud b like nigga das a dud.. im engaged so push!!!! KOLE!!!!! [added on to]

i'd probably skin up my face lie about my name and say i was gay & it's the truth..
unless da nigga is like a piee or something lol. N they say they hate LIARS Hmmm.[added on to]

um it would be weird if i dnt no this person...i would most likely be hesitant to give him my name
but however from when he says it..if i feel like he's ok i may give my nick name just in case
it all depends on how he looks as in scrubby or well put together and how he speaks etc.

Hi, My name is ..... and U? and its good to know that you are attracted to me!

lol i would laugh.
i would say hey tell him my name and just be polite
but i'd giggle

my names is ..., and you don't know me so you can't like me

i would respond "you don`t know me you can`t possibly like me, you are only intrigued by the physical facade"

i wud wanna know wat he wants my name 4... dat ain nun of he business

excuse me... who do you think you are approaching me like that...
have some respect for me and urself and come with some manners...
psh he too bold for me

hi my name is ... but how u cud like me sweetie if u dont kno me?

das gudd:) ...[if a girl says das good fellas just walk off before she does it to you.. Prolly ain the best advice but she deserve it.] {added on to}

depending on how the person looks, if he is worthy of me talking to i would continue in the conversation by saying
"but you dont even know me, how can u like somebody u dont even know"...
upon him giving me a good conclusion we will may b exchange numbers

id say hi..doubt id say my name and doubt i would respond to the last statement(kinda wired) and then id walk off

u dont know me!i would be like u weirdo/stalker

it depends how he say it..but more than likely that would scare me and i would pretty much not answer and try to get away

hi i'm....... , whats ur name..and why do u like me?

i would say Hi my name is..... and you are
NO i would say how are you
and i would carry on a whole convo

if he approaches me properly I'll smile and say thanks. but since he is a random guy he might get an alias name
if he seems sincere convo might continue

lol oh ok well i would tell him my name but tell him i have a boyfriend

how can u like me? u dont even knw me
LOL
that would b my response

um it depends on who the guy is
in other words how he looks
if he's attractive then he's got my attention but if he is not appealing to me the converstation would stop there


i'd probly say "wat's YOUR name n y u like me? u dnt even kno me"


if its a random guy who i never met or saw before id say my name is nicole and id say i have a boyfriend


*um...
*ill say my name
*and then i'll be like.. like me as a what?
*which will lead 2 sum conversation n ill c where it goes frm there
*good ennuf?:)
oh i dont feel anything
*im fine with it
*i jus will be curious as to what he liek, or how he lieks me
*if he knows me then thats different, if he TOTALLY RANDOM
*ill b like he's bold!
once he een look like a stalker
*or killer
*lol
*not that u cn tell lol
*but yeah

i wud respond by sayin how can u say that u like me when u dnt even knw me n let alone my name

:) I would answer him back by tellin him my name because atleast he ain on the other side of the road seeking trying to get my
attention.! and how can he like me if he just got to kno my name.. so what is there to like about me?
BUT! if he seems like a cool person then there's a possibility we could get to know each other


i would tell them my name .. but if they say they like me i think i would be like um...8-)kay

id be like Hi,
with a look like why u really wanna kno*,
if he say i like you,
ill be like oh ok *with a nice smile* and prob. walk off...

like i always do..... smile and play flattered. the approach is usually cheesy cuz if you dont know me, how can you like me. there is a difference between liking me and liking
how i look so i dont really let them talks phase me.
well for one, i am not looking for a particular approach but at least find some
common ground to talk about to build a conversation but dont start off askin about my name,
and if i have a bf and tellin me you like me cuz thats a turn off

thanks but i have a bf ( she commited she een even care if ya cute or not. good girl) [added on to]


well if some random guy approached me i would never give out my real name just like that
*so i might either say, "hello, how are you?" and avoid the whole name thing
*and if we're talking for like a minute, i would say a nick name or use my middle name
*but more than likely, work my way around the whole name thing for a good while
probably not (would the any form of communication be exchanged) [ questioned asked]
*if anything email addresses, but that would have to be after a good level of comfort with him, i
doubt jus someone approaching me off the street


I'd say...Hi, how are you? (he'll tell me) I'd say...My name is ....., I didn't get yours. (he'll tell me)...Then,
I'd say...you don't know me, (his name) how could you say that you like me? What do you like about me? (he'd answer)
I'd smile and say have a nice day!
I know that this man does NOT know me from a can of paint
*Unless I get the feeling that God sent that man to me....nothing is happening
*you can't like a person from seeing them :|

um.... ok who are you???


ummmmmmmmmmm
*i would be shock at first cause usually how thes boys commin up to u these dayz
they askin you for your phne number n dnt even no your name so
*i would respond in a positive way

lol i would say 'You must not like me very much, cuz u dnt even kno my name'



yea
*politeness cud b "rewarded" i guess...instead of the common oy or kissing sounds

i wouldn't respond b.c i wouldn't take him seriously
(this one shock the shit outta me like chick i just stop what I was doing come over to you and put my pride and erything on my shoulder for u not to respond. that right dere is worst that u being rude to me. I'd rather u call me ugly) [added on to]

i would answer his questions
i would simply tell him...he does not know me to like me
*based on first sight


well my first reaction would be one of confusion....especially if its some random guy....
i mean i will proceed to tell them my name and whats not...thats no problem...
nah the "i like you" part...will of course catch me off guard...i wouldn't know how to respond to that,
i probably would jus shake it off and switch the topic...
honestly..or maybe just end it right there...it cud play out either way

"hi" and "what's ur name" i could easy respond to..thats nothing
*the i like u thing..well you dnt even know me..
*u like my looks maybe but thats just the surface
*u cud stop at hi whats ur name and jus talk it out get a perception of who i am and then at the end of a conversation or two decide that u like me

*im good, i would probably ask how could he like me when he doesnt even know me since he's just some random guy
*i would find it strange

lmaoo
*i would say why and you dont even know me but my name

id say ooook im flattered but u dont know me. and i wud think he is a some crazy guy
yeh....he open up ok...even tho he shud introduce himself first...but thats an ok greeting...
and he is getting to the point...
not wasting my time
bullskating......
lovely and i cant help but to respond

well if he came up to me n said hi whats ur name id tell him
*since his approach was decent
*n when he says he likes me..it all depends on if im single or not n if i feel like id like him back...
since im not single..id probably have to let him kno i just wanna be friends..
i woudlnt completely cut him off if i enjoy talkin to him so far..cuz he prolly would make a cool friend
*if was single id prolly give him my number if i was feelin him
*n if i ain feelin him id just be like welll thats nice

lol..id give them my name no harm in that but you couldnt possibly like me...you don't even know me
if he just met me...his reasoning can't be anything more than superficial.
I'd be weirded out by him actually trying to substantiate why he likes me when all he knows about me is my name
*now if he said he was attracted to me it would be different
*liking someone and being attracted to them are two entirely different emotions and concepts



i would tell them my first name
*not my last
*n i would be like ooh thats nice who r u i mean it all depends on how they look
*then i mite bend conversation

uhhh.. lol i wud say my name n wen he tells me he likes me i would say oh.. thats nice lol
*but i dnt noe u plus i gatta bf :}
*das wat id say lol

im good..u
*ok
*ummm i would probably laugh and say ok who are you

lol...first of all he betta look damn good includin his teeth...
n secondly i will get to no him very well b4 he try make a move...
bt really my respond wuld cum from my facial expression


*id ask him how cud he like me if he doesnt even know my name
*that means he knows nothing about me and cant say that he likes me

i'd give him my nickname..not last
an i'd ask him how he cud like me if he dont know me

it depends realli, on the setting but under normal circumstances
i would pause look at him strangely then smile n
say ntn n hold out my hand to shake his and ask what his name was
*oh
*welll in that case
*when he says hi i would look at him strange like try to figure out
if i know him from somewhere
n then when he asks me what my name is that would say nickname never the first
n then ask him if i kno him from somewhere n then ask him his name
*i would ask him how he like me. what about me he likes
if he dnt kno me, n then i would tell him i have a bf
*but if i was single....i would take his number...if i found him
attractive i would give him my number n respond
if i didn't i would give him my number wouldn't take his...
n after he reaches me for the first time save his number as don't answer [tsk tsk*shakin head*]
[added on to]

since i dnt kno the guy i say my name iz alicia....i wld blush n say thank u

umm i wud say hey give a fake name an say u dnt no me so u cnt lik me

i would say oh how sweet a real gentleman
but then i would find it a little creepy coz he's like i like u

umm i would tell him my name

i wud be like aww ok dine bad..how u cud just like me and dont know me..is this a prank or sumtin?
and i would be like sorry sweetie i aint easy like daht

I would say "How could you like me if you don't know me"

how could you like someone you know nothing about?

well if he says all of that at once i wouldn't pay him any attention...
but it depends on lots of other factors too
well i guess i would continue to talk to him

i will tell him dat does nt mak sense cuz he dnt no me 2 lik me n probably onli likes how i lik
luk*

I'll give a false name and then to the second question figure out his reasons for likin me
n if it aint sensible then leave it @ that conversation but if he same like he have some sense then exchange numbers

i would say
*hi, my name is .... and i'm sorry but i am spoken for

I would respond by saying ok cool, have a nice night because if I am not interested in him even thou
he like me i just say kool and move a long

ok [she didn't care like Ok. tss.] added on too.

hello, am ok and yourself, and then i'll say thanks if he tells me he likes me
cause i will HIGHLY doubt he likes me from one convo lol

well if hes someone i cud see myself bein interested in..
dnt knw what i wud say but i'd talk to him

lol DEPENDing on my mood i might tell him my name...
and if he said he like me I would be like who are you and where do you kno me from lol...

SO YEAH!!!!

The set that I commented on I thought were really out there. I'd like to know how ladies would feel if we did the same to them. But for real doe. Attraction is a Key factor but that doesn't mean that all these girls like the same thing. some may prefer dark guys others bright, so I'm pretty much sure this will help all guys and even girls to some extent. I thought that this experiment was new and all in all it was a good experience. So notes to remember style points count, look sharp, unless your a smooth talker, rugged works too but on selective few, approach is everything. I thinks girls tired of hearing I like you. Maybe attracted to you is a better phrase but they don't know how much it takes to even approach someone as nice looking as they are. It is sorta hard to focus on what you really want to say to them. So you go for the simplest thing. Plus every body know that i like you is like saying I'm attracted to you in the Bahamian tongue.
Lets be real mostly all relationships start from an attraction point of view. You ladies make it seem like yoll b liking yoll cousins n wibe. {fix ya face} they know you longer than any other man gen know you!! right or right? okay den. Matter fact there is nothing wrong with saying I like you.
Break it down..
I LIKE YOU-

I like something/s about you-

I like the way you present yourself and they way you responded to me even though I was blunt It says a lot about your character.

That's only if she replied nicely. if she would rude I ain't gon lie i probably gen dis you back/ be rude. I real like that. How u could dis me and u don know me? that's the question!!!
RUDE ASS
No i ain't petty she deserved it.

In my opinion it takes a real Man to go over and talk to a girl especially if he don't know her at all. Any punk could seek at a girl that's passing or in a public area. Who's the guy that will risk his pride and go over with all cards exposed saying to her: hey, I like you. Wearing his feelings and thoughts on his sleeves.

REAL TALK YALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks to everyone who participated again.

Yesiah's & Empresses

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